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Wait… that's not subspace?
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Hi Reader, A few weeks ago, I had a scene where I was convinced I wasn’t going to drop into subspace at all. (Here's how I experience subspace) My head was loud. Stress from life and kids was everywhere. I thought, “Well… maybe tonight just won’t happen.” But later I realized something important: Most people think they’ve experienced deep subspace… when they’ve actually only reached stage 2. That’s why I finally broke it down: 5 Stages of Subspace (And How to Get There Faster) Do you think you or your partner has ever experienced deep subspace before? Here’s what keeps most people stuck at stage 2 >> Have fun exploring! – Alesandra xoxo |
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