Hello Reader, I know life gets busy, so I'm going to keep this one short and sweet. 1. June is Pride Month! Whether you're an ally or a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I hope you're able to find acceptance and live authentically. 2. Speaking of Pride Month, the whole "Should kink be at Pride" debate is in full swing. Here's my take on the controversy. 3. I've been getting back into self-bondage lately. I've found it to be a surprisingly grounding practice when life feels chaotic. 4. I've been...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, Very early on in my sexual relationship with my husband and now Dominant, I realized I wasn't like other girls. If I said "No" or "Stop" when things got rough, I was secretly a little disappointed when he stopped right away. After a while I eventually told him my kinky secret, and he admitted he desired at times to ignore my pleas. We agreed then that it was OK for both of us for my "no" and "stop" to actually mean: "YES!" But then we had a dilemma: How would he really know if I...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader, I hope you're having a pretty great week, but if not… I’ve got a story for you. One time, I wanted to show my strength during an impact play session. I had read about pushing limits and wanted to surprise my Dom by taking more than before. But I didn’t tell my Dom or check my own limits. As we went on, I hit my limit fast but didn’t use my safeword because I didn’t want to let my Dom down. Things got too intense, and I ended up feeling overwhelmed. We had to stop suddenly, and I...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, I hope you're having a nice (and kinky) week! If you're waiting till this weekend to play, or you want to plan an upcoming BDSM scene, I have some bondage tips for you: #1: Prepare the Space: Before kicking off your bondage fun, make sure your space is tidy, with enough room to move around. Get all your gear ready and within arm's reach. Also, double-check that the surface you're using is comfortable and safe for playtime. This little prep can really make your session...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader, A few weeks ago, I had a scene where I was convinced I wasn’t going to drop into subspace at all. (Here's how I experience subspace) My head was loud. Stress from life and kids was everywhere. I thought, “Well… maybe tonight just won’t happen.” But later I realized something important: Most people think they’ve experienced deep subspace… when they’ve actually only reached stage 2. That’s why I finally broke it down: 5 Stages of Subspace (And How to Get There Faster) Do you think...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Hi Reader, My Dom has rules. Lots of them. Protocols, expectations, and consequences when I fall short. And he's also one of the most skilled Pleasure Doms I've ever encountered. Both things are true. And that's actually the point. Read this if you want to understand Pleasure Doms >> Pleasure Domination isn't a separate category. It's a style – one that can exist with structure and discipline. The control just comes through a different channel. I break down exactly what that looks like...
2 months ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, Something I’ve become more and more passionate about over the years is making BDSM an actual lifestyle. Through that journey, I’ve found that I love helping other kinksters do the same—creating a deep, satisfying Dom/sub dynamic that works both in and out of the bedroom. Sounds good, right? That’s why I’m so excited to bring you this free 4-day virtual summit! Claim your free spot now! This event runs from Monday, March 31st – Thursday, April 3rd, and each day is packed with...
over 1 year ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, Happy New Year from Los Angeles! As 2025 begins, I’m reflecting on the incredible journey we’ve shared. From exploring BDSM together to learning and growing, I’m so grateful for your support. 2024 had its challenges, but you’ve made it memorable. If last year didn’t go as planned, give yourself grace—we all grow at our own pace. I’m thrilled to continue our path together in 2025! To help you start the year strong, here are some free resources to guide your journey: 1. Free...
over 1 year ago • 1 min read
I can't believe today is finally here, Reader! My podcast has officially launched! 🎉 Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just dipping your toes into the world of BDSM, my podcast is here to provide you with valuable insights and tips to enhance your Dom/sub lifestyle. The show aims to help you: Break free from societal expectations Embrace your true desires Make BDSM an integral part of your life Whether you identify as a Dominant, submissive, or switch, this podcast is a safe space where...
over 2 years ago • 1 min read