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I realized I wasn't like other girls when...
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Hello Reader, Very early on in my sexual relationship with my husband and now Dominant, I realized I wasn't like other girls. If I said "No" or "Stop" when things got rough, I was secretly a little disappointed when he stopped right away. After a while I eventually told him my kinky secret, and he admitted he desired at times to ignore my pleas. We agreed then that it was OK for both of us for my "no" and "stop" to actually mean: "YES!" But then we had a dilemma: How would he really know if I wanted him to stop? That's when we picked our first safeword. Years later we thankfully discovered BDSM, and our relationship evolved into 24/7, eventually with consensual non-consent, and now total power exchange. But safewords are still a useful tool. Even a long-term, TPE relationship can still use them to indicate real, imminent danger. And I may still futilely shout one out during a punishment spanking out of habit. ;-) In an updated article I published on my blog, I share 6 suprising things you need to know about safewords. If you've ever wanted to see practical examples of safewords, please read this article: Click here to read the article Hope you enjoy it! With love always, |
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Hello Reader, I want to give you something today that’s easy to read and actually a good use of your time. Are you ready? Awesome. 1. Happy Pride Month! 🏳️🌈 (And yes, kink is a big part of Pride's history.) 2. Did you know Dom Sub Living is a queer owned business? Check out what it's like being bisexual and submissive here. 3. I just updated this blog article on consensual non-consent, so please give it some love. You can even click the share links below the article. 😉 4. I'm putting together...
Hello Reader, I know life gets busy, so I'm going to keep this one short and sweet. 1. June is Pride Month! Whether you're an ally or a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I hope you're able to find acceptance and live authentically. 2. Speaking of Pride Month, the whole "Should kink be at Pride" debate is in full swing. Here's my take on the controversy. 3. I've been getting back into self-bondage lately. I've found it to be a surprisingly grounding practice when life feels chaotic. 4. I've been...
Hi Reader, I hope you're having a pretty great week, but if not… I’ve got a story for you. One time, I wanted to show my strength during an impact play session. I had read about pushing limits and wanted to surprise my Dom by taking more than before. But I didn’t tell my Dom or check my own limits. As we went on, I hit my limit fast but didn’t use my safeword because I didn’t want to let my Dom down. Things got too intense, and I ended up feeling overwhelmed. We had to stop suddenly, and I...