Hello Reader, Happy New Year from Los Angeles! As 2025 begins, I’m reflecting on the incredible journey we’ve shared. From exploring BDSM together to learning and growing, I’m so grateful for your support. 2024 had its challenges, but you’ve made it memorable. If last year didn’t go as planned, give yourself grace—we all grow at our own pace. I’m thrilled to continue our path together in 2025! To help you start the year strong, here are some free resources to guide your journey: 1. Free...
4 months ago • 1 min read
I can't believe today is finally here, Reader! My podcast has officially launched! 🎉 Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just dipping your toes into the world of BDSM, my podcast is here to provide you with valuable insights and tips to enhance your Dom/sub lifestyle. The show aims to help you: Break free from societal expectations Embrace your true desires Make BDSM an integral part of your life Whether you identify as a Dominant, submissive, or switch, this podcast is a safe space where...
over 1 year ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, Last month I released my newest course, Scene Creation Mastery. Early interest is looking good: Over 80 kinksters have already signed up! 🎉 Ready to grab this course for just $9 and get started creating thrilling BDSM scenes by the weekend? Click here to learn more and sign up >> – Alesandra xoxo
almost 2 years ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, So I've been keeping this a secret, but I'm working on something new and fun, and I finally get to share it with you! A lot of people I talk to are tired of feeling like their BDSM scenes are lacking in excitement and variety, or they're hesitant to try new things because they're unsure of how to do it safely and responsibly. If you can relate, I've got something perfect for you: Scene Creation Mastery – the quick and dirty course for creating thrilling BDSM scenes. You can...
about 2 years ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, The exciting world of kink contains not only its own rules and protocols, but also its own extensive vocabulary, too. But that terminology can often be intimidating for many people. My new blog post will be your high-level guide and BDSM glossary to the most common BDSM terms. I also share the dominant and submissive terms that you need to know when engaging in this lifestyle. Download your free BDSM dictionary PDF here >> I hope that this glossary will be helpful in providing...
about 2 years ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, When you’re engaging in the kink lifestyle, it’s important to have a BDSM checklist. You probably already have a basic list that you found when you first began your journey. However, you need to have one that is reputable and comprehensible. A good kink checklist will also help you discover your BDSM limits over time. But how do you actually use one? I cover all of that in this week's brand new blog post, plus I go over some of the most common kinks. (I even share my real-life...
over 2 years ago • 1 min read